Yearly Archives: 2010

365-326 to 365-332 A Week in Pictures


We’ve had such an unbelievably relaxed week – there  have been no agendas, no to do lists and no rushing around. We’ve built a puzzle, played board games, lain by the pool. It’s been a strange kind of blissful.

Dear Ameli- Letter To A 14 Month Old


Dear little girl, I never knew parenting would be like this. I knew people love their children, but I can’t say I ever really ‘got’ the way it is. That the little things that most of us take for granted – walking, talking, eating – can be such monumental occasions, and that I can experience…

Christianity And Attachment Parenting: Do The Worlds Collide?


Do Christianity and Attachment Parenting go hand in hand? I’m sure we’ve all heard that Jesus was breastfed, and I’m sure we’ve all heard the Christmas story enough to know that Jesus co-slept, at least until the wise men came. But my question is this: What would Jesus think of Gentle Discipline?

365-319 To 365-325 A Week In Pictures


Another week away, within our time away.  These are precious days, with our whole family together.

The Baby Number Two Question


When Ameli was two days old, I was asked if I’d have another child. Unequivocally, I said yes. I was on such an oxytocin high from my home water birth, I was capable of anything. And besides, my newborn had been asleep most of her life. And I had people around to help with food…

Help Me Plan Next Year On Diary Of A First Child


This is a survey for regular or at least occassional readers of Diary of a First Child. The aim is to help me plan for next year – both to manage my time better, and to provide as meaningful a resource as possible to you.

News Of The Week: Forced Adoption And Conditional Love


I was reading the Guardian Life & Style Family section and “My mum said I must give up my baby” caught my eye. The stories are all sad, and all about the same. It was the 50′s or the 60′s and my parents didn’t want me bringing shame on their house so they took away…

What Is Breastfeeding Let-Down And How Does It Work?


Milk production in the body is a simply miraculous process. In general, it is started when a baby latches on to the mother’s breast, and ‘let-down’ occurs. Really, let-down is the action of milk flowing through the milk ducts into and through the nipple and into the baby’s mouth. Knowing how breast milk is made…

365-312 to 365-318 A Week In Pictures


It’s been a rather paltry week for pictures as I’ve been dealing with issues, issues and more issues in my personal life. Even so, we took a break to celebrate my Dad’s birthday and my brother arrived in South Africa.

Mama Said No. All The Time.


One day I sat in an adjoining room to where my husband and daughter were. I didn’t know particularly what they were up to, but at one point, a full few minutes of the ‘conversation’ was her Daddy saying ‘No, no, don’t touch that. No Ameli, put that down. No, no, I said no’ and…


One day I sat in an adjoining room to where my husband and daughter were. I didn’t know particularly what they were up to, but at one point, a full few minutes of the ‘conversation’ was her Daddy saying ‘No, no, don’t touch that. No Ameli, put that down. No, no, I said no’ and so on.

I became conscious of how often we were saying no to Ameli and discussed it with my husband. At first he didn’t really think it such a big deal, but he must have become conscious of it, as he started pointing it out to me when I was doing it too.
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