Monthly Archives: December 2011

Friday Features: ‘Fine And Fair’ And ‘The Hippie Housewife’


Parenting is a ride where everything changes all the time. No sooner have you figured out something, possibly even mastered it when WHAM! In your face: it changes. That’s happened to me a lot this year as Ameli has gone from baby to toddler to two. I have made a stand against the whole concept…

Revisited: For The Love Of Cosleeping


This post is included in the Safe Cosleeping Blog Carnival hosted by Monkey Butt Junction . Our bloggers have written on so many different aspects of cosleeping. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants. *** I’ve been thinking a lot about bed sharing recently, as we plan to…

Mamatography 2012 – Are You Interested?


Are you up for a challenge? One that will take something from you every day, but give a whole lot back too? How about joining me for the photography challenge in 2012 then? A photo a day of whatever your day involved.

Pic Of The Week – Week 49 – Getting Festive


  Ooooh…. We’re getting festive here! I blame all the end of year Christmas parties, and use the term blame very loosely.

Choice And Consequence In Conscious Mindfulness


If there was a soundtrack to my life, the last week or so would have a ghostly echo pounding through a driving bass line. The ghostly echo would say one word, over and over again: “Mindful, mindful, mindful”. My mother will tell you I’ve always believed that we have the ability in ourselves to change…

The Little Green Sheep Christmas Stocking Competition


The Little Green Sheep is a lovely organic baby products company who currently have gorgeous Christmas Stockings available. These are really lovely gifts and would make a lovely Christmas present for baby’s first, or to spoil mum. There are three stocking options – a massage stocking, a bathtime stocking an a bedtime stocking, and they…

Pregnancy Friendly Alternative To Mulled Wine : Russian Tea


I adore Mulled Wine (Gluhwein). There’s nothing like the aroma of spiced red wine, cinnamon and cloves lingering over the house, but it’s been a few years since I’ve been able to indulge now, what with breastfeeding and pregnancy. I’ve tried a number of different alternatives for Christmas and winter flavours, but so far this…

How To: Send A Hug In An Envelope


It’s my sister’s 30th birthday today, and while I’ve been doing my best to not think about it, since thinking about it causes me physical pain in my chest, I did have a moment a few weeks ago where I did something to prepare for it: We made a hug in an envelope.

Friday Features: ‘African Babies Don’t Cry’ And ‘Parenting God’s Children’


Today’s bloggers in the spotlight are ladies who stir something within me. Reading their blogs is sometimes painful as it triggers a memory, something I prefer to keep shut away, so that I don’t have to remember, and with remembering, feel loss, or loneliness, or worse: longing.  They might not inspire the same emotions in…

Pregnancy Week 29 -Things Are Getting Serious


Dear Squidgy, This is it. The final week of pregnancy that starts with a 2. From here on out, if I recall, things begin to move really very fast and before we know it, you’ll be in my arms. To be honest, I’m a little afraid. It’s not you. It’s us, this life, our lives.…


Dear Squidgy,

This is it. The final week of pregnancy that starts with a 2. From here on out, if I recall, things begin to move really very fast and before we know it, you’ll be in my arms.

To be honest, I’m a little afraid. It’s not you. It’s us, this life, our lives. I’ve been a mother now for 26 months. You’d think I’d have a better handle on it all by now, but I really don’t. And no sooner do I celebrate a victory, confident in having figured something out than the whole game changes and WHAM! Just like that. I’m back to knowing nothing, feeling uncertain, unsure, insecure. (more…)